Question by kid nana: PLEASE HELP! Dog aggressive toward my 9 year old sister? NOTHING works?
Sorry in advance for the long question.
Ronnie mostly only growls at my sister Jess when he’s in my presence. I have 3 sisters, but Jess is the youngest. It’s frustrating too because I can’t spend any time with Ronnie without her eventually coming along and he’ll start misbehaving. Jess loves him a lot, and she feels very terrible about this and it makes her upset, and sometimes she thinks he doesn’t love her very much, and I think it affects her self-esteem. I DO constantly tell her that he does love her, he just thinks he’s her boss, but she finds it hard to believe sometimes.
Also, she isn’t very good with asserting herself with him. In fact I would go so far as to say she’s terrible at it. I try to get her to do things to show Ronnie who’s boss, like getting her to make him wait for her to step out the door first when we leave the house, or getting her to feed him dinner sometimes, but it doesn’t seem to work. I tell her to leave him alone when he growls, but she refuses to listen.
I also do everything I can to show him my disapproval, from sending him out of the room (he really dislikes that), tapping him on the nose (I really dislike that), telling him “Quiet!”, telling him “NO!”, getting everybody in the family to tell him “NO” the instant he does it, praising him when he stops…to no avail. Nothing. In fact sometimes it just makes him get more aggressive, and when I send Ronnie out of the room he snaps at her on the way out as if to tell Jess that it’s all her fault he’s being punished. Not with the intention of harming her I’m sure, he’s never actually hurt her, but it still worries me. He’s a medium to large-sized dog (Samoyed) so this could end badly.
Actually I think he usually he only snaps at her when I show him my dissapproval. (I just know I’m doing something wrong, but I can’t figure out what it is for the life of me.)
Usually when Ronnie acts this way, Jess only came to pet him, or show him affection, but sometimes all she really did was walk by, or she happens to be coincidentally standing in his presence. It’s insane.
This started a year or two ago, after he got arthritis, so I think this is causing him to have a shorter fuse.
Also, I don’t know how relevant this is, but Ronnie has anxiety issues as well. He wakes me up during thunderstorms and fireworks, and he gets really anxious outdoors. It used to be a nightmare every day where I could only get him to go down the block and he would refuse to budge. Although the outdoors fears are getting better with some work, I can still only take him so far in my area before he starts to freak out (I can only walk with him a couple of blocks), And the only thing which he really ever wants to do is go to the field near our house. And that means running and playing in it, and running is bad for his arthritis. I’m so happy he actually wants to be somewhere outside now, and I don’t want him to start hating it again, that I usually indulge him with a romp in the field. He was always anxious since the day I met him but he developed full fledged anxieties randomly and suddenly later on.
Please, please help! I’m lost and I have no idea what to do! He’s a big sweetheart, but for some reason he acts like this around her alone.
Thank you!
She does not act scared or worried in the least, she loves him a lot and is always ecstatic to cuddle him. Her reaction to his growling is more disappointment then anything, and sadness.
He has been fixed since puppyhood.
Best answer:
Answer by Bailee
have Jess hang out with your dog and make sure your not in the room while shes with him. Have her walk him and play and feed him until he starts gettin used to it. But while she is with your dog kinda just walk away and let her try to play with her. he may start getting used to her.
I dont know what to do about the other problem sorry
I hope this helps!
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